Flashy or Overly Glitzy Ensembles
While weddings are a celebration, showing up in an outfit that looks more appropriate for a red carpet or nightclub can come off as distracting or inconsiderate. Sequins, metallics, or high-shine materials should be balanced carefully. “Unless the invitation explicitly calls for glam or black tie, anything too glitzy risks overshadowing the couple,” notes Walker Graham. A subtle shimmer or a tasteful embellishment can be elegant—but anything too showy should be saved for another occasion.
Denim and Casualwear
Even in the most laid-back wedding scenarios, denim is rarely acceptable. “Unless you’ve been told it’s a barbecue or rustic-themed celebration where jeans are specifically welcomed, avoid wearing denim,” says Williams. Likewise, items like t-shirts, hoodies, or sneakers—no matter how high-end—tend to read as disrespectful to the event’s formality. Opt for polished pieces like a linen suit, tea-length dress, or jumpsuit instead.
Loud Prints or Logos
Bold patterns can be fun, but overly loud prints or garments with visible brand logos can pull focus in group photos and may detract from the romantic tone of the day. “Let the couple and their décor be the stars,” advises Walker Graham. “Solid colors, muted florals, and classic prints usually photograph better and feel more timeless.”
Theme-Clashing Outfits
Some weddings come with a theme or specified dress code, such as garden party, beach formal, or ‘old Hollywood glam.’ Disregarding the theme, even if unintentionally, can make a guest stand out for the wrong reasons. If you’re unsure what the couple means by the dress code, don’t hesitate to reach out for clarification. It shows care and ensures you’re dressed appropriately.
Final Thoughts
Ultimately, wedding fashion etiquette is rooted in respect—for the couple, the ceremony, and the effort that goes into planning such an important day. If you’re ever unsure about what’s appropriate, don’t hesitate to reach out to the couple or someone close to them. Most couples would prefer a quick message than a guest showing up in something that feels out of place.
“Being a great wedding guest isn’t just about what you wear—but how your choices reflect your thoughtfulness,” says Williams. When you dress in a way that’s stylish, respectful, and occasion-appropriate, you contribute to the overall beauty of the celebration—and help make lasting memories for everyone involved.
