The idea that the average New Zealand wedding costs around $30,000 is increasingly outdated, according to wedding planner and founder of PS I Love You Events, Astrid Braid. On The Prosperity Project podcast, Braid shared that while it’s possible to host a wedding on a smaller budget, the quality and style of the day may not align with what couples envision.
“Is it doable? Yes, but you’d need to pare things back significantly,” Braid explained. “You’d have to be very careful with guest numbers and keep the overall aesthetic minimalistic. In reality, the average wedding spend is probably closer to $50,000 or $60,000.”
Braid also highlighted a common mistake couples make in planning: starting with the style and design of the wedding before setting a clear budget. “You need to start with your budget first, then create your guest list, and only after that decide on the style of the day. Your guest list will ultimately dictate your budget,” she advised.
Even couples with larger budgets can face the challenge of reconciling their vision with their financial reality. “Couples often look at extravagant weddings in places like Dubai or the U.S., where budgets are less of a concern, and try to replicate those visions without considering the real costs,” Braid said.
For those trying to save without compromising the experience, Braid offered several tips. For example, she suggested serving high-end champagne like Moët or Tattinger during the post-ceremony toast, then switching to a more affordable brand like Deutz or Lindauer for the sit-down reception. “Guests rarely notice,” she said, “and it’s a simple way to save without sacrificing the feel of luxury.”
Braid also recommended prioritizing areas that truly matter, such as hiring a skilled photographer, while avoiding unnecessary expenses like wedding favors. “We don’t recommend favors because they usually end up being discarded or returned at the end of the night, making them a waste of money,” she explained.
Ultimately, Braid emphasized that with thoughtful planning and a clear understanding of priorities, couples can have a memorable, dream wedding without overspending.
