A surprising trend has emerged in matrimonial law as an increasing number of couples incorporate “marriage strengthening” clauses into their wedding contracts. Nearly 40% of couples married in 2025 have added innovative legal components to their unions, according to data from the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. These range from mandatory counseling provisions to financial transparency agreements—all designed to reduce divorce risk by addressing common pain points before they escalate.
The most popular innovation is the “check-in clause,” requiring couples to attend relationship counseling at predetermined intervals (typically every 2-3 years). Drafted by family lawyers and therapists together, these legally-binding provisions specify consequences ranging from financial penalties to temporary separation protocols if sessions are skipped. Early data from couples who adopted these clauses in 2020 shows a 58% lower divorce rate compared to national averages.
Financial transparency agreements represent another growing trend. These require full disclosure of assets, regular financial “state of the union” meetings, and in some cases, preset terms for handling windfalls or economic hardships. Some couples are even incorporating cryptocurrency tracking provisions given the unique challenges digital assets present in divorces. “We’re seeing prenups evolve from defensive documents to proactive marriage maintenance tools,” explains family law attorney Jessica Powell, who has drafted over 200 such agreements this year alone.
Perhaps most radically, some couples are implementing “sunset provisions” that automatically dissolve the marriage after a set period unless both parties actively choose to renew. While controversial, proponents argue these force intentional recommitment rather than allowing marriages to continue through inertia. Early adopters report approaching renewal dates with the excitement and reflection typically associated with major anniversaries.
Religious institutions are taking note too. Several progressive synagogues and churches now offer “marriage tune-up” retreats tied to these legal check-ins, blending spiritual and practical approaches to relationship maintenance. As these practices gain mainstream acceptance, they may fundamentally alter our cultural understanding of marital longevity—shifting from “until death do us part” to “as long as we keep choosing each other.”
